It’s tough to really say who has their life together and who does not. There are many ways of thinking about it and of assessing what it means to have your life together. You can say that if you have a job at all and can pay most of your bills, you have your life together. But that’s not the only thing that separates the strong from the weak. You also have many other factors to consider. So when you’re wondering if you truly have your life together, there are some signs, so let’s see what they are.
Let’s assess your job. First of all, do you have a job? If so, that’s good. But it’s not black or white. For example, you could be a freelancer and then technically not have a job, but you can charge $150 an hour for consultations, or $5000 for a photo shoot, so not having a job is not necessarily a sure sign you don’t have your life together. Or for example, say you work at RAM San Juan Capistrano. If you are a entry level car salesperson, it’s probably quite easy to say you do not have your life together. However, if you’re the manager, or the closer, then yeah, you probably have a good income and good career path, so that’s a good sign.
Your car is a great sign and indicator of your life status. Say you drive an 18 year old car you got from your grandmother five years ago. Then it’s very safe to say you have a lot of work to do in getting your life together. You’re not going to fall in love that way, and no one will fall in love with you. Now say you drive an awesome badass huge truck you bought from OC Ram Truck Center, one that has such high towing capacity you could tug the entire Tiger Forest along the interstate. Then it’s safe to say you have your life together big time. Congrats.
Do you have love? If yes, good, if not, bad. But we’re not talking having a significant other. Most examples of significant others are examples of two people who are reluctantly living with each other. There’s no passion. There’s no love. Life is too short to settle. So why not actually wait and find someone who is a great fit for you. Love doesn’t have to be something you just find and go along with. It’s better to be alone and single for years, knowing that if you’re patient the right person will come along, than to just find the next person and enter into a relationship that you hope will be satisfying but at the end of the day won’t be. Love is what makes success but if you don’t let yourself find real love you are going to be a sad person for the rest of your days, and that is not the way to kill it in this here world.